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| Evette Holyfield |
"I would prefer if women waited to have sex,But I know it's
unrealistic to think that all women are going to think like me. I think women
should make a list of what they really want in a man. Then, wait, really stick
to your guns, and have faith that God is going to give you that person. If
women did that, it would save them a lot of heartache. Never settle."
Adding "If I'm talking to someone I
actually like, I say, 'Look. This is not gonna happen, and there's no
chance,'" she said. "I feel like if a guy truly loves me, and he's
ready to commit, then he will do everything in his power to make me happy and
meet my criteria."
To those that
question her decision to remain celibate shee has this to say.
"My
sister is a virgin, and I have a couple of friends who are virgins too,"
she said. "Some women have said to me, 'Why would anyone want to date you
if you haven't had sex?' I ask them, 'Why would anyone want to date someone who
has slept with the whole world?' Having sex with a man is not what's going to
set you apart. What's going to set you apart is what's in your head. Show a guy
something different-- something that will stimulate his mind, not something
they see or get all the time."
Other
celebrities that openly discussed the decision to remain celibate include actresss
Meagan Good and her husband De Von Franklin did not have sex until after marriage. In the same vein actress Tamera
Mowry-Housley recently told Ebony that she chose withh her husband to remain
celebate until after marriage.
That’s a good
decision. Stand your ground. What do you think?
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